psa: intent literally never matters when it comes to oppressive behaviour sorry to break it to you (◡‿◡✿)
(Source: iamjudithbutler)
| Ad Hominem: | You're wrong because you're white, cis, male, straight, etc. |
| Ad Hominem Because: | It is an argument against you as a person, rather than against the point you made. |
| Not Ad Hominem: | The privilege afforded to you in being white, cis, male, straight, etc. has most likely contributed to the misconceptions that help form your incorrect opinion about this issue. |
| Not Ad Hominem Because: | It is an argument against an incorrect interpretation of the data in an argument. It is not an argument against you, but an argument against a flawed perspective devoid of context. |
| Therefore: | Unless someone literally says "you're wrong because you're white, cis, male, straight, etc." then their argument isn't ad hominem. |
I love playing soccer with my friends. But as it got closer to the time I had to leave for it, I got nauseous all of a sudden. So I decided I’d stay home a little longer until I felt better. And by the time I actually felt okay enough to do anything without puking, I was sure the game was already over.
I didn’t even do anything awesome. I was just on Steam and Tumblr for hours. I’m not even allowed to play The Last of Us without Laura being here with me to watch/play… which is fine I guess because The Last of Us honestly freaks me out. But in all the right ways.
It is really fucking awesome so far. It’s basically The Walking Dead (comic series & game) + Uncharted (game) + Children of Men (movie).
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I kinda want babies, but then I’m like, how do you even raise those little fuckers? but they’re really cute.
I have these same feelings every now and then. I think, “Damn, I can’t wait to have my cute little Asian babies. Dress them up all nice and cute. Teach them really cool stuff.” But then I think about the adult part of it and I feel lost. Yeah, I’ve helped raise my siblings. I know how to deal with babies and kids. But I’ve never actually had to provide and raise.
(Source: hopeplusdream)
hey if you ask someone out and they say no here’s what you do
- don’t try to guilt trip them and make them feel bad for it
- don’t try to pressure them into changing their mind
- don’t try to get them to elaborate on why they said no they have their reasons and whether they choose to tell you or not is their own decision
- don’t get angry at them
- don’t insult them
- understand that they can make their own choices and have reasons
- respect their choice
- respect them
Raven and Jujubee - Is that my ring?
(Source: simply-mysterious)
